Law of Attraction

How Do You Feel?


How do you feel? Your feelings are one of the things you can have more control over.

In yesterday's post I discussed how I try to give myself as much self-care as possible, especially when hubby is in the midst of a deep depression (like he is right now).

Remember that no matter what is going on at home, I still need to go out there five days a week and make my clients feel better and stronger. I can only do that when I am feeling OK.

Last night we slept in PJs for the first time in 21 years (yes, we are naked cuddle sleepers) and when I woke up he was on the couch. Now I am on the couch and he is... wait for it... in bed.

Today I did my morning self-Reiki, and then I will go for acupuncture, which makes everything better. And I will do some Pilates mat and maybe play with some new stuff. I will also continue to crochet my scarves that will be for sale at the Clara's Boutique at Real Pilates.

I could, at this point, just fall over crying. I could, at this point, be really really pissy and angry to everyone around me, including myself.

But I do know that, while hubby's depression isn't my fault, choosing to feel and behave badly would be my choice and my fault.

I choose to do everything in my power to feel good.

This was in my inbox this morning from Abraham-Hicks:

You see, you're giving others too much power as you even acknowledge how they make you feel. What you've got to decide is how I'm going to feel. We would go to a Virtual Reality and we would practice feeling good. Manifestations come on the heels of what you've conjured in thought.

It is perfect, isn't it? Love the synchronicity.

So, how do you feel?

Law of Attraction - Dad and the Nursing Home

We saw the law of attraction in action this past week as my Dad managed to wish himself into a nursing home.

My father is 86 years old and has been hale, hearty, and even working up until last year. In the last few months he became really depressed and felt very alone, which wasn't a good combination with not eating well (I really wish that Dunkin Donuts would stop offering AARP members free donuts with coffee, and at least give an egg sandwich or something with protein, but I digress...) and some dehydration from too much coffee and not enough water.

So we made plans and preparations to move Dad over to an income-sensitive independent-moving-towards-assisted living complex for seniors where he could have meals on site, doctors on site, laundry, housekeeping, and a social network. And we kept giving him advice on food and water. Still, every time I spoke to him he was more tired and mentioned going into a nursing home.

Note that my mother has been in a nursing home for the past decade and now has advanced dementia.

Last week he fell, and after the hospital they sent him to the same nursing home as Mom for short term rehab. And he hates it! It's boring and there are lots of truly ill and disabled people. He is looking forward to moving now, even though he is sore from therapy and refuses to admit that simply eating real food three times a day and drinking more is helping him feel better.

Now, it turns out that he actually called the home a few weeks ago to see if he could enter voluntarily. So last night I said, "Dad, be careful what you wish for because you might very well get it," and he laughed. At least he didn't break anything and is getting a preview of what it would be like there full time. And they will do his Medicaid application while he is there, so he can be covered moving forward as he needs more care. Oy!

Law of Attraction Prosperity Affirmation Video

Do I really believe in the Law of Attraction? Yes and No. What I can tell you from experience is that the more I focus on gratitude, on self development, and on taking inspired action to move forward, the better I do in all aspects of my life. Do I believe that it works without the action? That simply focusing without acting will get you anywhere? No, I do not. Whenever I receive an email from Pat O'Bryan or Joe Vitale offering me a new free tool to assist my development as a human being and as an internet marketer, I always check it out. Frankly, I bought their now free Clearing Audio years ago and found it to be so useful and such a bargain that I still listen to it regularly.

Now Pat has been focusing on videos, and offers several useful meditation videos on his YouTube channel. This one in particular is a short five minute morning video to start your day in a space of prosperity. So nice!

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